This has been a ridiculous emotional rollercoaster of a fortnight. (I've always wanted to work that in somewhere). I don't know what it IS about February, but it just doesn't seem to be our month...
February 5 - 1st anniversary of losing Jonah
February 10 - 1st anniversary of losing Noah
February 11 - Keith's grandpa passed away, flew out of state for his funeral
February 11 - a family member experienced a miscarriage
February 16 - my great grandmother passed away, leaving tomorrow out of state for funeral
Can it just be March yet? It will be like a new leaf. Isaac is still moving around like crazy - on his same routine every day - and we will finally have another ultrasound in a couple of weeks! I'm exhausted most of the time, but have been running on adrenaline this past week. I still have heartburn daily, nausea most of the day, and I'm still not ready for his arrival! Next week a dear friend is coming over to help me nest in the nursery, so after that I'm sure I'll feel a TON better. I just have to get through THIS week. :(
EDIT: Isaac ended up being born in February, also, to remind us that things are not ALWAYS bad and there's no such thing as bad luck OR superstition.
Jonah and Noah
Thursday, February 17, 2011
Friday, February 4, 2011
32 weeks!!!!!!
I cannot believe we've made it this far!!!!! I had a BABY SHOWER last weekend, we have a bassinet in our room, we bought a diaper bag and a changing pad for the dresser. Keith did a huge load of baby laundry, the little t-shirts and Onesies are stacked up ready to be organized... I still feel like all this preparation is for someone else's baby. That sounds insane, but I still feel like we're just pretending about some hypothetical baby that we're preparing for in 5 more years, like when we're "old enough" to take care of another human. I mean, 1 month before my 30th birthday is definitely too young to have a child! Riiiiiiiight...
A woman in my OB's office (1,000 miles away from Chicago and Dr. Haney) was talking to her/my OB about possibly getting the TAC. Since I'm currently the first and only TAC patient in her office, she hooked us up! It's good to know the word is spreading about the TAC and it's success. So exciting!
I really should get on packing a bag and pre-registering and such. I'm just so tired...
PS - WHAT happened to January? Seriously! That month just came and went w/o me even registering it.
45 days!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Isaac Nolan will be here in 45 days!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
A woman in my OB's office (1,000 miles away from Chicago and Dr. Haney) was talking to her/my OB about possibly getting the TAC. Since I'm currently the first and only TAC patient in her office, she hooked us up! It's good to know the word is spreading about the TAC and it's success. So exciting!
I really should get on packing a bag and pre-registering and such. I'm just so tired...
PS - WHAT happened to January? Seriously! That month just came and went w/o me even registering it.
45 days!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Isaac Nolan will be here in 45 days!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thursday, January 27, 2011
Updates
As you can see to the right I have put up an awkwardly placed ticker with the countdown to our son's birth!! He will be born via scheduled c/section at noon on March 21, 2011. It seems like SO far away still, but I know it's coming up quickly!
My OB told me that I needed to travel. She is giving me until 34 weeks to do anything I'd like to do since things are going so well. The diabetes is managed well, I've had almost no contractions, no swelling, good blood pressure. The TAC is a miracle worker.
Our little guy is SUCH a big mover. At 28 weeks he was breech, and I really don't think he's flipped yet. I feel almost constant punching/kicking simultaneously in my right ribs and left hip. My belly is starting to move like an alien, from side to side, and jerking quickly up and down. Silly boy!!!
I'm 30w6d today and I bet he's close to 4 lbs at least. I am currently meeting with my OB every 2 weeks to monitor my glucose levels and b/p and growth. No more ultrasounds until 36 weeks, though, unless something is worrisom enough to deem it necessary. At my appt. this week, my uterus measured 32 weeks, or 2 weeks ahead of schedule! In doing some reading, I'm guessing I'm measuring bigger because he's likely still breech.
We had to give her the name of a pediatrician (gasp!), I have to get pre-registered with the hospital (double gasp!) and I'm meeting with said pediatrician this Friday (eeeeek!). Things are really getting real. On a daily basis, I think about a "take home baby," yet I still feel like it's such an abstract impossibility. All signs are pointing to bringing home a healthy son, I just can't grasp it. I'm preparing, going through the motions, but not really acknowledging that it's happening to me and not someone else. So totally weird, I know, but such is the mind of a woman who's had such tragedy and loss and struggle in her life. I can't wait to see him in the flesh, alive and breathing, eyes opening and closing. I can't wait.
My OB told me that I needed to travel. She is giving me until 34 weeks to do anything I'd like to do since things are going so well. The diabetes is managed well, I've had almost no contractions, no swelling, good blood pressure. The TAC is a miracle worker.
Our little guy is SUCH a big mover. At 28 weeks he was breech, and I really don't think he's flipped yet. I feel almost constant punching/kicking simultaneously in my right ribs and left hip. My belly is starting to move like an alien, from side to side, and jerking quickly up and down. Silly boy!!!
I'm 30w6d today and I bet he's close to 4 lbs at least. I am currently meeting with my OB every 2 weeks to monitor my glucose levels and b/p and growth. No more ultrasounds until 36 weeks, though, unless something is worrisom enough to deem it necessary. At my appt. this week, my uterus measured 32 weeks, or 2 weeks ahead of schedule! In doing some reading, I'm guessing I'm measuring bigger because he's likely still breech.
We had to give her the name of a pediatrician (gasp!), I have to get pre-registered with the hospital (double gasp!) and I'm meeting with said pediatrician this Friday (eeeeek!). Things are really getting real. On a daily basis, I think about a "take home baby," yet I still feel like it's such an abstract impossibility. All signs are pointing to bringing home a healthy son, I just can't grasp it. I'm preparing, going through the motions, but not really acknowledging that it's happening to me and not someone else. So totally weird, I know, but such is the mind of a woman who's had such tragedy and loss and struggle in her life. I can't wait to see him in the flesh, alive and breathing, eyes opening and closing. I can't wait.
Wednesday, January 19, 2011
M.I.A...
I've been a bit MIA lately, not for any physical reasons. Everything is going pretty well, in fact. The gestational diabetes is being controlled by diet, I got my Rhogam shot, baby boy is measuring perfectly, and I'm now seeing my OB every 2 weeks. He has a name, a crib, a bassinet, lots of clothes, books, a car seat. Physically, we're getting ready.
However, things are emotionally difficult for me right now as the anniversary of the births and deaths of our twins is coming swiftly. I actually scheduled a Labor/Delivery Tour at my hospital with my husband and a good friend and her husband for February 5. I only today put it together that it will mark one year to the day that our first son Jonah was born and died, and the awful rollercoaster week that ended with the birth and death of his brother Noah. As of right now I am keeping the appointment, since I really do want the tour. Despite being there for a week I have no clue what anything was like. I have NO idea how I will react. If I run into one of the nurses (especially Louann, who delivered Noah herself and was SO amazing and motherly to me) I will most definitely lose it... (EDIT: Louann was there and assisted in the emergency c/s delivery of Isaac. Creepy!). There are just WAY too many memories there. On one hand, I feel if I go it will desensitize me a little so when I do deliver our take-home baby, I may hurt a little less. I'm SO terrified that I'm going to give birth to this son and not want to hold him because I'll be painfully reminded of the ones I didn't get to bring home.
I feel torn. I should be excited, yet I'm having days where I'm perfectly content to lay in bed and cry. I'm just really conflicted right now. That's the most I can say about it. I'm not going to try to analyze it, I'm just going to feel it. I'm certain other baby-loss moms out there totally understand me.
I've been really bad about the weekly check-ins lately, so here it is for 29w5d (today):
How far along? 29w5d, a squash, I believe. He should be a little over 3 lbs.
Weight gain/loss: 10-12 depending on the scale
Sleep? IIt's getting more uncomfortable and bathroom trips are not bringing as much relief as they previously were!
Best moment this week? Watching my stomach move and twist. A few days ago Keith was on the laptop, I was reading, and the dogs were at the foot of the bed sleeping. All of a sudden, little man started jerking and twitching and started shaking a KING size bed and all it's occupants. He's a strong one!!!!
Movement: So much, and he's been punching the same spot over and over again. His head was near my belly button facing to the right, so his hands are punching my right side, and something is simultaneously hitting my left hip. I feel like he's running in place all the time! He's going to be high energy that's for sure.
Food cravings: Turkey sandwich with "dog cheese" (Kraft singles, we use it to give the dogs their meds) and mayo with a Diet Dr P. Also, ice cream with peanut butter and Hershey's syrup. Those have been what I look forward to most each day.
What I miss? I hate this question. <-- Still the same
What I am looking forward to? Baby shower on January 29!
Milestones: He has SUCH an amazing chance at survival now. We are scheduling the c/s at my next appt in a week (either March 18 or 25, depending on my OB's Spring Break schedule (yes)) and I have an appt with a pediatrician next Friday! It really is happening.
What I'm nervous about: Nothing yet...
However, things are emotionally difficult for me right now as the anniversary of the births and deaths of our twins is coming swiftly. I actually scheduled a Labor/Delivery Tour at my hospital with my husband and a good friend and her husband for February 5. I only today put it together that it will mark one year to the day that our first son Jonah was born and died, and the awful rollercoaster week that ended with the birth and death of his brother Noah. As of right now I am keeping the appointment, since I really do want the tour. Despite being there for a week I have no clue what anything was like. I have NO idea how I will react. If I run into one of the nurses (especially Louann, who delivered Noah herself and was SO amazing and motherly to me) I will most definitely lose it... (EDIT: Louann was there and assisted in the emergency c/s delivery of Isaac. Creepy!). There are just WAY too many memories there. On one hand, I feel if I go it will desensitize me a little so when I do deliver our take-home baby, I may hurt a little less. I'm SO terrified that I'm going to give birth to this son and not want to hold him because I'll be painfully reminded of the ones I didn't get to bring home.
I feel torn. I should be excited, yet I'm having days where I'm perfectly content to lay in bed and cry. I'm just really conflicted right now. That's the most I can say about it. I'm not going to try to analyze it, I'm just going to feel it. I'm certain other baby-loss moms out there totally understand me.
I've been really bad about the weekly check-ins lately, so here it is for 29w5d (today):
How far along? 29w5d, a squash, I believe. He should be a little over 3 lbs.
Weight gain/loss: 10-12 depending on the scale
Sleep? IIt's getting more uncomfortable and bathroom trips are not bringing as much relief as they previously were!
Best moment this week? Watching my stomach move and twist. A few days ago Keith was on the laptop, I was reading, and the dogs were at the foot of the bed sleeping. All of a sudden, little man started jerking and twitching and started shaking a KING size bed and all it's occupants. He's a strong one!!!!
Movement: So much, and he's been punching the same spot over and over again. His head was near my belly button facing to the right, so his hands are punching my right side, and something is simultaneously hitting my left hip. I feel like he's running in place all the time! He's going to be high energy that's for sure.
Food cravings: Turkey sandwich with "dog cheese" (Kraft singles, we use it to give the dogs their meds) and mayo with a Diet Dr P. Also, ice cream with peanut butter and Hershey's syrup. Those have been what I look forward to most each day.
What I miss? I hate this question. <-- Still the same
What I am looking forward to? Baby shower on January 29!
Milestones: He has SUCH an amazing chance at survival now. We are scheduling the c/s at my next appt in a week (either March 18 or 25, depending on my OB's Spring Break schedule (yes)) and I have an appt with a pediatrician next Friday! It really is happening.
What I'm nervous about: Nothing yet...
Wednesday, January 5, 2011
Third Tri Check-In
How far along? 27w5d, an eggplant! Yesterday he was 2 lb, 11 oz!!!
Weight gain/loss: 9 lbs at OB office
Sleep? I'm still sleeping well, but at 3 am, I wake up starving! Thanks to GD, I can't eat anything :(
Best moment this week? Seeing him yesterday was magical.
Movement: All the time! He's a mover and shaker.
Food cravings: Triscuits. Non stop.
What I miss? I hate this question.
What I am looking forward to? Baby shower on January 29!
Milestones: Almost 3 lbs, officially in 3rd trimester!
What I'm nervous about: Nothing!
Weight gain/loss: 9 lbs at OB office
Sleep? I'm still sleeping well, but at 3 am, I wake up starving! Thanks to GD, I can't eat anything :(
Best moment this week? Seeing him yesterday was magical.
Movement: All the time! He's a mover and shaker.
Food cravings: Triscuits. Non stop.
What I miss? I hate this question.
What I am looking forward to? Baby shower on January 29!
Milestones: Almost 3 lbs, officially in 3rd trimester!
What I'm nervous about: Nothing!
Thursday, December 23, 2010
Last 2nd Tri Check-in: 99 days left!!!!!
This is my last 2nd tri check-in! On to the third trimester next week. I can't believe I've made it this far!!!
How far along? 25w6d, an eggplant! He should be around 15.5 inches long at this point!
Weight gain/loss: 7 pounds? Not sure why all the fluctuations...
Sleep? I'm sleeping GREAT!
Best moment this week? Figuring out why I was having contractions. I was otherwise getting pretty scared and we were emotionally preparing ourselves for his arrival. Also, we ordered the high chair today so that was fun!
Movement: He's slowed down quite a bit but he's still wriggling around in there. I really think he has less room to move around, so the movements are not quite as strong.
Food cravings: Spicy, spicy spicy. Hot wings and Taco Bell with lots of fire sauce! <-- This, still!+
What I miss? I hate this question.
What I am looking forward to? Next OB appt on January 4!
Milestones: Almost in the 3rd trimester. :)
What I'm nervous about: The Diabetes Counseling classes I have to take starting January 4. :(
How far along? 25w6d, an eggplant! He should be around 15.5 inches long at this point!
Weight gain/loss: 7 pounds? Not sure why all the fluctuations...
Sleep? I'm sleeping GREAT!
Best moment this week? Figuring out why I was having contractions. I was otherwise getting pretty scared and we were emotionally preparing ourselves for his arrival. Also, we ordered the high chair today so that was fun!
Movement: He's slowed down quite a bit but he's still wriggling around in there. I really think he has less room to move around, so the movements are not quite as strong.
Food cravings: Spicy, spicy spicy. Hot wings and Taco Bell with lots of fire sauce! <-- This, still!+
What I miss? I hate this question.
What I am looking forward to? Next OB appt on January 4!
Milestones: Almost in the 3rd trimester. :)
What I'm nervous about: The Diabetes Counseling classes I have to take starting January 4. :(
Wednesday, December 22, 2010
Contractions and GD
So last week I was having contractions while on the toco monitor. Quite a few of them, 5 an hour to be exact. Nothing earth-shatteringly scary, but definitely enough to keep me in bed for a couple of days.
I think we figured out why, though - I was laying propped with pillows on my back. The nurses said that sometimes if blood flow to the uterus is hampered at all, the uterus will respond by becoming irritable. Whew!!!! I've since been monitoring on my side and so far only 1-2 contractions picked up. I'm very thankful, we are NOT wanting to meet Little Man this soon!
Yesterday I got diagnosed with Gestational Diabetes. Not happy about that, but I guess the bright side is that I'm being forced into a healthy diet. I like healthy foods, so that won't be a problem. I just really like sweet and unhealthy foods, too. He will be worth it. All worth it!!!
I think we figured out why, though - I was laying propped with pillows on my back. The nurses said that sometimes if blood flow to the uterus is hampered at all, the uterus will respond by becoming irritable. Whew!!!! I've since been monitoring on my side and so far only 1-2 contractions picked up. I'm very thankful, we are NOT wanting to meet Little Man this soon!
Yesterday I got diagnosed with Gestational Diabetes. Not happy about that, but I guess the bright side is that I'm being forced into a healthy diet. I like healthy foods, so that won't be a problem. I just really like sweet and unhealthy foods, too. He will be worth it. All worth it!!!
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